Day 26 - Reflections

So I'm finally back in the USA! It's honestly kind of a culture shock to be back here, back to normalcy, back to what I know best. I've been away from it for a while and have seen so many different cultures, that it was a bit of a surprise to come back to. But now I'm all right :) Also, first thing I utilized was a nice public toilet. Hahaha.

The flight wasn't too bad, considering. I slept through most of it and watched a movie as well. Customs was pretty easy to go through, but saying goodbye was hard. I had to rush it since my dad was waiting outside and everyone else had to catch the connecting flight to Salt Lake, but it was weird to think that the trip was finally OVER. I made 20 great friends on this trip, people I've gotten to know really, really well, and I hope we can continue to remain great friends in the future. I'm really excited to look back through this blog and everyone's pictures as well as see the video that Michael is compiling. So no pressure, Michael :)

I thought I would just take the rest of this post to reflect on my trip as a whole and on the many things I've learned. I've learned so much on this trip, not just about business and the world but about myself as well.

I think the most important thing I've learned is how big the world actually is and how much culture affects people's lives. We're all inherently similar, yet the way we are brought up - by our families, governments, societies - plays a huge part in our motivations and mindsets. In Europe, they're used to a comfortable lifestyle and don't think it wrong to protest when the government asks for a 35 hour work week. In India and especially China, where they've been poor for so many years, their work ethic is completely opposite.They can work 60 hour work weeks and think nothing of it. It's important to realize the ethics and mindsets of each culture you associate with in order to get anywhere with them, whether it's business related or not.

Another big thing I learned was how business is conducted in each country. Negotiation skills and work mentality is different everywhere you go. The French are aggressive and in your face. The Chinese are passive but take a long time to make a decision and don't quite understand the meaning of yes. It's important to learn all these things if you're going to do business abroad. And one thing I've learned is that I definitely want to do business abroad. Your way of thinking just changes so much, and you realize that the way you've always done things is not the way the rest of the world thinks is correct or even reasonable.

I've also learned a lot about myself. I've learned to let my guard down and just have fun. I've learned to be strong and not compromise on what I know is true. I've learned how much I love this gospel. I've learned just how insignificant I am compared to the 7 billion other people  in this world, yet how I can make a name for myself in this world. I've learned how to be more respectful of other people's beliefs and lifestyles. I've especially learned that I want to make a difference in the world, not just get a job that will make me wealthy. Because I've learned that wealth doesn't mean anything when it comes to happiness. In fact, it's even harder to be satisfied when you have more. True humility comes when you make the most out of what you do have and don't want for much more.

I want to continue to travel. I've had a sip of it, now I'm thirsty for it. There are still so many places I want to visit and see. I hope I can get a job that will let me travel. Because you can't really understand something until you've truly experienced it. And I want a life full of experiences.

Thanks to all of you who read this blog. I hoped you enjoyed reading about all my adventures, and I hope you soon get to have some of your own! I heavily recommend traveling and seeing the world. You won't regret it.

Merci. Grazie. Shishi. Shukriya. Thank you! 

Day 25 - Elephants and Airplanes

Today I rode an elephant up a mountain in India. Let's read that sentence again, shall we? It was the coolest thing ever. I rode. an. elephant. The view was absolutely astounding. The wall across from us looked a bit like the Great Wall of China :) We rode to the top of a summer palace where we saw some great sights, meditated a bit, and had an epic dance party.




Michael's turban



On the elephant! The pics of us actually on it are on another camera



This was used as the Khan's summer palace

Hannah and I on the fort at the top 

Jeep ride back down



After the elephant excursion we drove back to New Delhi, because that's where the airport is located. We stopped at a shopping mall on the way. It was in the nicer part of the city, and was pretty westernized and clean. We also of course stopped by the McDonald's in the mall, which only offered ice cream, but had some pretty cool choices. I also bought some cool Indian snacks - some chocolate and weird looking potato chips. They were pretty good actually.




Then it was time for our farewell dinner. It was pretty sad knowing this was our last night together, and we had a good time. We gave our gifts (signed elephants and a card) to K-Mac and K-Deets to show how much we appreciated what they did for us and I think they really liked them. They really put together the trip of a lifetime and I can't thank them enough.

I love all of these people so much




party in the backseat


Now it's time for my last airport ride. 15 hours baby. It's finally hitting me that it's over, and I kinda wanna cry. I don't want to go home!




See you in America!

Day 24 - Jai-pur!

Today we traveled to Jaipur! The entire drive was GORGEOUS and what I expected India to look like. The city also has more of a traditional Indian feel as well. I love this city!


scene outside the bus window




We finally got some Indian shopping in! We went to this huge bazaar in the old part of Jaipur. You have to go through a big gate to get into it. It was the coolest market ever. There were all kinds of crazy sights and smells. I even saw some monkeys hopping across the buildings! We went with Raj's wife and she helped us get the best deals we could. I ended up getting a couple scarves, a purse, and some really cheap bangles. The shopkeepers weren't as hardcore of hagglers as the Chinese, but you could still get your stuff down to a pretty cheap price. 

What I had for lunch. Some kind of lamb something. It was pretty good, but really spicy

The bazaar


monkeys!



After shopping, we next stopped at a Hindu temple. I loved this place. It was nice and calming after the craziness of the bazaar, and learning the stories of the various gods was really interesting. They also had depictions of other religion's prophets, such as Jesus Christ and Buddha, as well as important historical figures such as Socrates and St. Anthony in their temple. The Hindi religion follows the belief that any religion you choose is the right one so they worship all kinds of religious figures. A little interesting. 





Then we went to the best part of the trip, the Indian fair! It took place outside this really neat, spread out hotel. There was a puppet show, music and dancing, camel rides, henna tattoos, palm reading, snake charming, and a delicious dinner. It was so much fun and made us all love India even more. I rode a camel, got a henna tattoo, danced my heart out, and was told that I will die at 75, get married at 30, and be very successful in my career. I can handle that :)

Namaste

puppet show


dancing with a pot on her head

camel ride!


I was kinda scared of getting down haha


Henna!



So Hindi



When we got back to our hotel, we decided to continue our adventure by taking a rickshaw ride! They're basically these electric taxis with no doors, and in heavy traffic they are pretty scary. It was dark so their wasn't a ton of traffic, but it was still pretty exhilarating and really fun. A great way to end our last day in India :)




Day 23 - Agra-bah

Namaste! Today we traveled from New Delhi to Agra! It was about a 5 hour bus ride, and the Indian landscape is just so different, with trash, dirt, and even cows everywhere. Cows literally roam the streets like they own the place. I’ve also seen monkeys, camels, donkeys, dogs, and goats everywhere. It’s kind of strange but kind of awesome.


monkeys!







family motorcycle

snake charmers



Agra is a quite different from New Delhi. It seems a little bit wealthier, with more stores and shopping centers as well as more women out on the streets and on motorbikes. In New Delhi we hardly saw any women out on the town. I’m not really sure why. Maybe because it was more of a Muslim population there.

We started out our tour of Agra by visiting the Taj Mahal! That’s two world wonders we’ve seen in a month  :). It was built by the emperor in the 1500s as a monument to his beloved wife. It really is an incredible building. Even walking up to it, it didn’t seem quite real. Almost like a postcard.

our ridiculous tourist hats


gotta have a pic like this :)






gorgeous Indian kids


We also went to the Agra Fort, a really incredible building that gave a great view of the Taj Mahal from afar. I like to imagine what those buildings would be like in the times they were built, I’m sure they would have been just breathtaking.  










The Taj Mahal




girl pic


After the fort we went to a marble factory where they showed us how they make the marble that was on the Taj Mahal and the Fort. It was interesting but they kept pressuring us to buy something, I’m sorry but I don’t really need a $3000 slab of marble. I think Raj gets a cut or something from our purchases. Pretty sketchy.


cool, but dang expensive


We then went to dinner at Pizza Hut as it was right next to our hotel and we didn’t want to walk very far. Most of the pizzas contained something spicy. I choose the chicken supreme pizza, which was a little spicy but not too bad. We also tried this drink called masala lemonade, which was by far the most disgusting drink I have ever consumed. It was basically a bunch of spices mixed in with lemonade. It tasted like armpit and sewage. I don't know how the natives drink it. 



Tim did not enjoy

That was about it for Agra! I'm excited to visit Jaipur tomorrow. I'm not sure what to expect.